For Young Women and Men

 Who Want to Get Married!!!

If you are not married yet, don't get too intimate with a person you are not married to, this includes using the other room most often. Because it has future side effects or disadvantages that can affect you and people close to you for life.

Many people regret getting married and many are getting divorce!
When you use the other room too often or too intimate with a person you are not married to you are killing your future! For example; if you are in love with someone and you are into each other very much, including the other room most often, one day he or she says to you that the family doesn't accept marrying another tribe! You will feel very sad, won't you? Yes because you will say you have invested time, resources and energy into the relationship only for your heart to be broken with tribal rejection. 

You carried this frustration into the alms of another person! This young woman or man is now suffering from what they know nothing about just because you refused to forget your past relationship, you keep saying I don't love this person I married now, he or she doesn't know how to treat you like your ex! It was a mistake, etc. And because you don't have anywhere else to go, you decide to stay and frustrate the young man or woman who is innocent because you don't love him or her,  you only love your past.

Well, I don't blame people that are running away from home and getting divorce! It is because they cannot endure such a partner as some people do.

Takeaway

1. Don't rush into marriage 
2. Study and test each other
3. Know each others history and family backgrounds 
4. Know each other's intentions for dating 
5. Ask questions and do your secret findings. 
6. Don't marry a frustrated person or because you pity their past! My friend, you will be digging your own grave. 
7. Watch out for signs; spiritually and physically and pay attention to your dreams when you sleep. If you ignore them, you will remember them later and will begin to regret it when it begins to happen. 

Trust me you don't want to know what most married people are facing or enduring. 
So take it slow. Do a minimum of one year and a maximum of two years to study each other.

I pray you learn as a young person.  And those of us who are into marriage already I pray that God strengthens us by His grace and  through Jesus Christ amen. 

Alex Agbannon.

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